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Fernanda and Jacopo planted 50 trees in memory of Thomas Butler
Monday, February 13, 2023
50 trees were planted in memory of
Thomas Andrew Butler
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Dear Barbara, we will miss Tom very much. And these trees will grow up in his memory. With love, Fernanda and Jacopo Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Geraldine O Hara posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 28, 2023
Dear Barbara and all the butler families it was with great sadness that we heard of the passing of Thomas we in Ireland although far away in Ireland have lost another great member of our family A wonderful intelligent man who will be missed by us all . Sending sincere sympathy to you all. rest in peace Geraldine Moffitt O Hara Ireland
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Keith Thompson posted a condolence
Saturday, February 25, 2023
Tom and I became best friends when we worked together at White & Case in the late 1960s, a friendship which lasted over the many years since. In the course of a lifetime a person usually has many friends, but only a few which he considers his best friends. For me, Tom was one of mine. He will be greatly missed by myself and by everyone else who knew him. Keith Thompson
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Louise Auriemma planted a tree in memory of Thomas Butler
Thursday, February 16, 2023
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Thanks for your devotion to my friend, Barbara, and for all the good works you accomplished in your time on Earth. You will be missed. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Judith Ann Smith lit a candle
Thursday, February 16, 2023
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To the entire Butler Family -- so Sorry to Hear about the Loss of Husband, Father and Grandfather. He led quite an impressive Life and lived it with Family and friends alike. Rest In Peace. Love - Judy Smith
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Shelly Hernandez planted a tree in memory of Thomas Butler
Tuesday, February 14, 2023
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With heartfelt condolences, may we always honor Tom's memory and legacy. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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HOWARD AND LIZZIE GOLD planted a tree in memory of Thomas Butler
Monday, February 13, 2023
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WITH OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. WE LOVED TOM AS A FRIEND AND A FATHER FIGURE. HE WILL ALWAYS LIVE IN OUR MEMORIES Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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The Hofmanns and Bells planted a tree in memory of Thomas Butler
Monday, February 13, 2023
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With sincere love and respect to an amazing man and peace to all the Butlers. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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FTB International planted a tree in memory of Thomas Butler
Monday, February 13, 2023
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Dear Tim, our hearts sincerely goes out to you and your family. Please accept our deepest sympathy and condolences for the loss of your father Tom. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Alex Butler planted a tree in memory of Thomas Butler
Sunday, February 12, 2023
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jennifer brennan lit a candle
Saturday, February 11, 2023
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I am so saddened to hear of Uncle Tom's passing. He was a wonderful person and uncle, a man of deep substance and strength. He was the glue of the Butler family, bringing family together and creating unforgettable memories. Uncle Tom always reminded me of my mother, his sister Margaret who passed away before him. Not only did they resemble each other, they had that same strength of spirit and kindness, and such a solid, dependable presence. Uncle Tom will be so very missed. Sending love and prayers to all the family who loved him and were fortunate to have him in their lives. He is now with my mother and his brothers Marty and Timmy and his parents. Godspeed...With Love, Jen (Brennan)
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The family of Thomas Andrew Butler uploaded a photo
Saturday, February 11, 2023
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Mike , Gina and Toft family planted a tree in memory of Thomas Butler
Saturday, February 11, 2023
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My condolences to the whole family. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Christine Benson posted a condolence
Saturday, February 11, 2023
To my Aunt Barbara and the entire Butler family: My heartfelt condolences to all of you. A man who touched so many lives. Thirty-five years ago my Aunt met the love her life. She was and continued to be the happiest I have ever seen her. She was treated with love and respect and shown the world and had many fun and loving memories while doing it. I eventually called him “Uncle” Tom and would address the card AB & UT. When I met him, we instantly had something major in common – how much we cared for Barbara and that we both worked in NYC law firms. He would tell me stories about things he experienced and the work he was doing with such passion. He truly loved what he did and being a litigator. He was always there to assist with a job application, legal issue or anything else. He was never too busy to help. He was kind to all of my family, helped all with a happy heart. He always talked about his children and their families with a big smile and with so much love and pride. I know my Aunt was very happy to get to know and have relationships with his children and their significant others, their children and their pups. Uncle Tom was a joy to be around -- always fun, full of adventure, a true gentleman, there to give advice and sharply-dressed :-).
To say he will be sorely missed is an understatement. My family thanks him for all the happiness he brought to our Aunt and all he did for many of us with a happy and giving heart! We will be forever grateful for him and all the happy memories we had in NJ, NYC, Millbrook and FL (and for My Mom, CA, Vegas and Italy too). Rest in peace dear Uncle Tom. Love Always, Christine
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Friday, February 10, 2023
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To Barbara, Michael, Chris, Tim, David, Thomas, Deirdre, Alex and all the spouses, partners and grandchildren who have lost such a special person this week...my deepest sympathy and condolences for this difficult loss. I was heartbroken to hear the news tonight of Uncle Toms passing. He lives large in my memories. He was a wonderful Uncle, brother and human. He had a fierce and tender persona. Family meant so much to him and that always made such an impact on me. He had a beautiful life and touched many. I hope you all can take comfort in the wonderful memories of your time with him and all that he leaves behind. I believe he is at peace with his sister (my mother), his parents and brothers. I will miss you Uncle Tom, Love Katie
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Tara, Marsha, Bryan, Mac and the MLG team planted a tree in memory of Thomas Butler
Friday, February 10, 2023
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We are so very sorry for your loss. Sending you love and wishes for peace during this impossible time. Our hearts and thoughts are with you. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Kevin Kerr posted a condolence
Friday, February 10, 2023
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you Barbara and all the Butler family during this difficult time. At the time of my parent's deaths, I was only about 20. Thomas didn't know me, I was just a friend of Timothy's from NYU, but even so, Tom went way out of his way, absolutely and entirely, without expectation of anything from me, to help me with the estate and associated legal matters. I have never forgotten that and have always been grateful to him. Rest in Peace, Tom; you will be deeply missed. Kevin, Katrin, Alexandra, and Kaitlyn Kerr
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Kevin, Katrin, Alexandra, and Kaitlyn Kerr planted a tree in memory of Thomas Butler
Friday, February 10, 2023
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Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Thomas Butler
Friday, February 10, 2023
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Kiesha Scott lit a candle
Friday, February 10, 2023
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Please accept my/our heartfelt condolences. Thomas led such an extraordinary life and there are wonderful pieces of him in all of you. I am here for you, and I am praying for you all. God bless you
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Madonna Schiebe lit a candle
Friday, February 10, 2023
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To the Butler Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. May you find peace in the loving memories each of you has of him and continue to share with each other during this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
With love,
Madonna Schiebe

A Memorial Tree was planted for Thomas Butler
Friday, February 10, 2023
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We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ the staff at Graham Funeral Home Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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The family of Thomas Andrew Butler uploaded a photo
Friday, February 10, 2023
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